I am married to a Dead Head. My husband Mark didn’t discover the band until he was in college, so he missed much of the touring that makes the community vibrant, but he’s made up for it ever since. Like most Dead Heads, he has listened to the 200+ versions of Fire on the Mountain and could tell you what date and venue the best version of the song was played. He loves the Dead so much that he plays keys in a Dead cover band called Peak 2 Peak (they gig locally so check them out if you live around here!).
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Managing your chaos
Most of my days are full of meetings, in 30 minute increments, sometimes in 15 minute increments, and occasionally a rare 60 min meeting. At one point in my career, I could have 30 meetings in a day (not lying, 15 min back to back meetings with maybe 2 breaks all day) for days, and on a few occasions, a couple of weeks at a time. Even now, my days are stretched between staff meetings, weekly 1:1s, weekly all-hands and team meetings, board meetings, founder pitches, investor connections, community ‘asks’, portfolio company support, network maintenance… the list goes on, and that’s just the work stuff. Tomorrow I have a slow day – 9 meetings; one of them is a 2 hour portfolio review, and that doesn’t include a friend’s launch party and an event at my kid’s school. I remember when my calendar first started filling up this way, back in 2010 – it felt exhilarating… I’m IMPORTANT! Look at all the people that need me! Now I just see it as a failure on my part to impart the right people with the right wisdom and freedom to be successful, independent of my input.
Read More »Crown complications and musings on details

The vegetable plate was the only item at the Starbucks near my gate I can eat. First of all, it was literally the only food item I could eat since I’m trying to avoid gluten. I’m from Boulder after all. And we, in Boulder, avoid gluten, alongside other curiosities, like sugar, high heel shoes, GMO foods, nail polish on our fingers (toes are okay though), and carbon emissions. But today I can’t eat the gluten-laden muffins and croissants of Starbucks even if I wanted to because I can’t open my jaw wide enough to get my toothbrush all the way in. See I had dental surgery last week, a cracked wisdom tooth resulting from a large filling, and a few years of grinding in my sleep. The temporary crown back there is rougher than my other teeth, and is supposed to get replaced with the permanent crown 3 days from now. It’s doubtful I’ll be keeping that appointment since I can’t even yawn, as this complication with my crown surgery has put me in considerable pain. And for some stupid reason, I feel like toughing out the pain rather than taking ibuprofen. So… I’ve bitten the tip off the pointy cherry tomato foot and am sucking the juice out because I can’t open my mouth any wider.
Read More »How connected are we, really?
I’ve been thinking a lot about the word connectivity.
In tech, we use the word ‘connectivity’ to talk about our devices – how our devices connect to the internet and to each other. As one who travels a lot, connectivity is my tether to work and home. I can survive without my cell connection, but sever my data connection and much is lost. I can’t check my email, I can’t work, I can’t see if that company’s round is closing or what startups we decided to invest in or sign that board agreement. I can’t FaceTime or text with my kids, can’t see the news, can’t check in on Twitter or Facebook. I have no idea what’s happening in the world around me. Being connected to the internet helps me support not just a few investments and Techstars programs – but hundreds. Being connected to the internet broadens my reach from what’s immediately around my physical person – to the global reach that Techstars has across 5 continents, 500+ cities, and 100+ countries. Connectivity helps me scale my productivity.
Read More »We bought a bed.
Today marks a monumental day in Mark (husband!) and my life.
We bought a bed.
Now, I know this doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it is. Our mattress has been sitting on plastic-wrapped box springs, on the floor, for 5 years. Prior to that, our old mattress was on one of those free frames that come with the mattress when you bought it, and I think it was the same frame I got in college.
The bed represents the first piece of furniture we actually *bought* in our adult lives. You know, something that we didn’t get on Craigslist, or Ikea, or was a hand-me-down or gift of some sort. In fact, the Ikea furniture that’s currently in our master bedroom replaced a used, falling-apart dresser that I literally bought for $20 FROM THE CLASSIFIED SECTION OF THE NEWSPAPER when I was a sophomore in college. It was that old.
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A perfect summer weekend in Boulder, CO
I moved to Boulder in January of 2000, so I was recently asked by a founder, who was interested in moving to Boulder, what should they do and see while here to get a feeling for the town.
I came up with this list. If you have other suggestions for how to spend a perfect weekend in Boulder, let’s hear them!
- Hike Sanitas, it’s a classic. Hike up the western side trail for a great workout. Come down either the valley trail or the dakota ridge (east) side.
- Any hike in Chautauqua is a winner, but hiking the 1st and 2nd Flatiron will give you views of the continental divide.
- Go have a picnic lunch on the lawn at Chautauqua. If there’s a show, see it! Or just hang on the lawn and listen from afar.
- Have tea at the Dushanbe tea house, even if tea isn’t your thing.
- Go rent a tube and float down the Boulder Creek Path (don’t do this if the water is raging!)
- Or rent a city bike and bike down the Boulder Creek Path.
- Rent a mountain bike and check out the Valmont bike park.
- Check out the Farmers Market on Saturday from 8am-2pm.
- Have breakfast at Lucile’s (order the biegnets) and Snooze.
- Have a margarita (or two) on the rooftop deck at The Rio, but DO NOT have 3. You will not be able to walk out of there. Skip the food.
- Have a sunset drink at The Flagstaff House, the views are spectacular.
- Eat at Pizzeria Locale, T*aco, Oak, and Frasca. Frasca is spendy but worth it!
- Rent a standup paddleboard at the Boulder Reservoir. Or better yet, turn that rental into standup paddleboard yoga.
- Drive out to Red Rocks in Morrison, and hike around. Or go see a show there this weekend.
How to achieve and maintain Inbox Zero
Working at TechStars comes with voluminous montains of email a day. On an average day, I get north of 250 emails, most requiring some sort of response. On a high-volume day (like during applicaiton cycle), I can get as many as 500 emails in one day.
It’s daunting. And since I pride myself on responsiveness and follow-through, it eats away at me if I can’t respond to everyone. I’ve been buried in email for the last 2 years, and I’ve tried more methods, software solutions, tricks, processes, etc to solve this problem. I’ve finally succeeded in getting out and I want to share my method. Here’s what I do.
- Use GMAIL! Spam filters + labels are incredible.
- Use the web browser to read your email, don’t use a client. It took me about 3 weeks to get to the point where I actually liked working with the native gmail interface, but once I got used to it, now I love it. You cannot beat keyboard shortcuts for speed.
- Use the Google Labs feature called “Multiple Inboxes”. When you configure it, configure it to show ON THE RIGHT.
- I show 2 labels as my “multiple inboxes” on the right. 1 is called “do by friday” and the other is called “do sometime”.
- As I read my email, I either a) answer it right away. b) label it “do by friday” or c) label it “do sometime”
- Use Boomerang.
- Schedule 1-2 hours each day for nothing but EMAIL. Block it off on your calendar. I try to do ~ 1 hour in the morning as soon as I get in, and 1 hour right before I leave.
Alright, now that the basic setup is complete…. here are the tricks. It’s important that you show the multiple inboxes on the right and filter by those two labels. If the labels are just buried in the label list on the left, or if they’re above or below your normal inbox, you won’t see them. It’s also imperative that you move stuff out of your inbox as soon as you get it, either by labeling it with one of those two labels, or replying to it right away. If you can reply to it within 60 seconds, do it right then. If not, apply one of those two labels. You should never read an email in your inbox twice. If its an email you reply to, but need a response back from, use Boomerang. It’s a great little service that says “add this message back to my inbox if no one replies in X days”. So once I hit send, I just boomerang it, then archive it so its out of my inbox. It will appear back if people don’t follow through.
I also schedule extra time on fridays to empty out my “do by friday” label.
If your email gets tagged “do sometime” – goodluck. I will respond to it at my earliest, which might be next week or might be next month or in 3 months. But I will respond.
This method works for me, hope it works for you too!
7 steps to startup success
Tomorrow is day 1 for TechStars Boulder 2012, and I’m sitting here this evening putting together the orientation presentation. My final slide is called the TechStars Survival Guide, and it consists of only a few bullet points. It strikes me as I finished the slide that they’re not just bullet points to survive TechStars, but on how to radically increase your chances in any startup. So let me share them with you.
1. Be intellectually honest. It basically means you have to know yourself, know what you’re good at and what you suck at. By identifying what you suck at – you can easily surround yourself with those who have strengths in your areas of weakness. Being intellectually honest means being open to feedback, even when that feedback is negative. I’m a firm believer that successful entrepreneurs leverage their strengths and compensate for their weaknesses by hiring the right people.
2. Deep engagement with mentors. This is true even for startups not associated with an accelerator like TechStars. Find mentors, experienced entrepreneurs and leaders who have knowledge in what you’re doing. By engaging with mentors, you can avoid easy-to-make mistakes. But the key is to engage with mentors deeply. Empirical observations suggest that founders who are good at this tend to do much better with their companies than founders who don’t.
3. Find the truth. Startups are risky business. But if you want to radically decrease the chances of failure, engage in lean startup methodologies. It isn’t about your idea anymore, it’s about what customers are willing to pay for. I don’t care how good your hunch is, get to the truth by getting feedback from customers early and often.
4. Prototype rapidly (or my favorite – code badass shit). Don’t spend months and months building. Know what a minimum viable product is, build it fast, and get it out there to start generating feedback. This will help you get to the truth more quickly.
5. Synthesize data & decide quickly. Many TechStars founders get analysis paralysis as they try to synthesize the sheer volume of feedback they get. Get data, decide, act. If you’re wrong, fine, just fix it. If you struggle to decide, you waste valuable time and it becomes harder to fix a wrong decision (notice I didn’t say bad decision).
6. Develop a rhythm. Almost everything we do can benefit from a rhythm. (I’m still learning this trick). Everything from code releases, to blogging/tweeting, to email updates to mentors, to staff meetings. Developing a rhythm will keep you in sync and ensure you don’t forget important stuff.
7. Do the right stuff, fast. We’ve all heard the analogy of the jar filled with the big rocks. Is it full? Of course. But then you add smaller pebbles. Now its full? Not quite, you can still add sand. Finally, it’s full… until you pour in water. The key here is to know the difference between busyness and productivity. Keep your eye on the big rocks – moving those items forward. Don’t let the minutiae bog you down (I personally struggle with this one).
Feel free to add tips if you think I’m missing something.
Tips on getting into Techstars
The Value of the Zero (and why community matters)
I originally posted this for my friends over at BoulderStartup.org & Silicon Flatirons – they’ve been hugely supportive to the Boulder Startup Scene and I’m thrilled to be a resource to them. Check them out!
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Getting my entrepreneurial start – I was still in college. I was riddled with student loan debt, I was eating at all-you-can-eat restaurants and stuffing food in ziplock bags in my backpack. I was working my way through school and remember lying to friends about being unable to join them for a movie because I couldn’t afford the $5 ticket. I was one of the lucky ones, my parents were paying for my tuition; I just had to pay for everything else.
It was during that time when I started my first company. It was an online retailer focused on selling to the property management industry, and my dad was my business partner. My dad was the brains behind the operation, I was the braun. I didn’t realize this last part until later though; I thought I was the brains. I spent 1 measely, pathetic day scoping out the market and learned we would be the first online retailer targeting in this space. I came up with a product set for the online store (2,000 products!). Then I had to figure out how to build a dynamic, database-driven website when the extent to my tech competence was limited to all-nighters fighting my friends on Doom (which we did on our 2400 baud connection). Then I had to figure out how to market and advertise the site. I muddled my way through it with a lot of hard work, luck, and encouragement.
I had nothing back then. Nothing. No money, no family, no husband, no assets of any sort. I had to cover my $600/mo in living expenses (rent, food, gas, beer). Well, I thought I had nothing. But from an entrepreneurs perspective, I had everything. When you have nothing, you have nothing to lose. And when you have nothing to lose, the only thing you have to fear is the fear of failure. Luckily for me I had a family that never let me be fearful of failure. They encouraged me to take risks, to get comfortable with being uncomfortable, and helped me realize that I could easily start over and wouldn’t really lose anything but would gain experience that was worth more than success could ever garner.
My family was my ‘startup’ community back then. Boulder has become my startup community now. Most people here are surprisingly supportive of startups. Boulder isn’t a place that fears failure. I’d say it openly embraces it. You’ll talk to lots of people that are starting something or wish they were. Successful entrepreneurs, investors, mentors, and peers alike will take your meetings. People will encourage you, and you need that encouragement to take the first leap. So if you’re in Boulder and you’re thinking about starting your first company – do it. But do it wisely. Here’s my quick action plan for getting started.
- Don’t be fearful of failure. It’s the most crippling, self-inflicted handicap around.
- If you have much to lose in the way of assets, just have a backup plan. What’s the worse case scenario? What happens if you really do have to declare bankruptcy? Might be a nice opportunity to wipe away all that debt anyway – could be a blessing in disguise.
- Don’t live inside your own head. Get feedback on everything. I guarantee one thing in your startup – you will be wrong. Talk to customers, get yourself an advisory board, talk to experienced entrepreneurs. They can all help steer you past the obstacles which derail even the smartest of people.
- Learn how to accept feedback, even negative feedback. Don’t take it personally. Know when to utilize it, when not to, and how to communicate with those whose advice you don’t follow.
- Don’t come up with an idea. Find your areas of passion, then find a problem where people will pay for a solution. I’m amazed at how many entrepreneurs get this wrong.
- Build your team and know everyone’s strengths and weaknesses. In my opinion, this is the hardest part for the entrepreneur. It’s like finding your spouse.
- When you commit, go all-in. Stack the odds in your favor by focusing on it 100%.
- Love it.
I’m older now, with much more on the line. But I’m in Boulder, and I’ve surrounded myself with entrepreneurs that are taking risks every day, with much more to lose than I ever had. Those founders and this town give me the courage and the inspiration to know that I’ll start another company one day. But not for a while – I love what I’m doing too much to call it quits yet. 🙂